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This month, we’re exploring the theme of parent identity—because parenting isn't just a role you perform.
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Week 1
Focus: Parent Identity
How many times have you been on a website of a creator you like, or their Insta page, and seen, "Mom of So-and-so"? Every time I see that, it gives me the ICK.
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Obviously, I love parents. And it's fine that folks want to share their parenting status with the world. The part that gives me the ick is wrapping up one's entire identity in their child.
Parenting is obviously a massive part of who we are, and gives us unique insights into ourselves and the world. But when we place our identity on who our child is, that becomes dangerous territory (see also: "boy moms", "autism moms").
So this month, we are going to focus on your parent identity: who you are as a parent, and a whole person.
Weekly Challenge:

This week is about being curious - no judging! Think about the following:
- Who am I currently as a parent?
- Do I like the way I feel when I'm parenting?
- Do I feel consistent/grounded/like there is a clear through-line?
- How would someone else describe my parenting style if they saw it?
- Does my parenting identity rely on my child, or my own actions?
As always, if you feel comfy, please do tell us all about your thoughts in the WhatsApp Community!
Week 2
Hello Collective!
I know, I know. It's January and you're still coming back to life and you kinda sorta want me to leave you alone but also you're paying for this membership and you want me to be gently pushing you.
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But I chose an intense freaking topic to kick off the year. How dare I!
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But, I did it for a reason.
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Once you do this work, the rest will fall in line much easier. Getting grounded in who you are as a parent will give you some bumpers in your lane for the next rounds of challenges.
And, I know you're ready for this! So let's keep pushing forward.
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Focus: What's working
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The focus this week is on what's working right now. Remember, this isn't just about what parenting tactics are working right now, this is about what parts of your parenting identity are currently serving you.
Weekly Challenge:
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Think about your own internal processes, your tendencies, your values, your behavior patterns. What are the things that feel supportive, grounding, aligned?
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As always, please feel free to share as much or as little as you feel inspired to!